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  • No One Can Crush You

    There’s some major construction happening outside my window at work. Heavy machinery is fascinating. You know what else is fascinating? The ways we make ourselves small. The ways we fall apart. The ways we crumble. One of my friends recently told me that they were afraid that someone on a dating website would crush them.…

  • Raise Your Standards. Just Do It. Then, Do It Again. Do It Again. Do It Again.

    There’s a difficult thing that you’ve been wanting to do that is at your limit. Do it. Want to get on those bike trails? Want to go to the party on Friday and not drink? Want to do a TED talk? Want to try a power yoga class? Want to believe something new about yourself?…

  • That Annoying Person at Work is You

    My student started his speech like this: “You know that annoying person at work? The one who drives you crazy, who insists on doing that annoying thing that you can’t stand? Picture that annoying person. Imagine who they are in your workplace… Now consider this: What if that annoying person is you?” Oh, dude. I…

  • I’m Not Sure I Want Jesus to Drive

    My friend recently said to me, “Georgi, just let Jesus take the wheel a little more. You’ve heard that Carrie Underwood song, right? You should listen to it again. Let Jesus take the wheel. Let it go.” I know he’s right. I know there are things I need to let go. I’m just not sure…

  • This is How You Love Yourself

    You give yourself a break. You give yourself some rest. You take a deep breath and then another. You roll your shoulders. You remember that you don’t have to do everything. You don’t have to be friends with everyone. You don’t have to exercise every day. Some days, you can rest. You can wrap yourself…

  • Make Out With Yourself

    Emm and I were headed up Logan Canyon to the Beaver Mountain yurt when I noticed the license plate of the car next to us. “OH MY GOD!!! Look!” I said, “UR LOVD! Do you see that? We are loved!” Do you get super excited about good license plates? I do, especially ones with great…

  • There Are HUNDREDS of Opportunities. Can You See Them?

    Having a drink with Shireen and Katie at a local bar. Guy walks up next to me and joins our conversation. We crack some “Saved By The Bell” Zach Morris and AC Slater jokes. Shireen looks over his shoulder to see that he has left his friend at a table behind us. She turns to…

  • What Are You Looking Forward To?

    Have you ever caught yourself thinking about the worst case scenario? Fighting, yelling, being left out of something special? Having someone you really care about say something terrible? The worrying mind: I create vivid future nightmares and then hope they don’t come true. UGH. I gotta stop that. Let’s do something more fun. If you’re…

  • Have More Fun

    Recently, I got into an Uber to go to downtown and meet some friends. When I got in the car, I asked the driver how he was doing. He was not doing so well. He had a list of complaints for me. Tired, weather, some chick damaged his car, yadda yadda. UUUUUGgggggggghhhhh what a bummer,…

  • There’s No Pride in the Afterlife

    I know a lot of dead people. What happens after death? I’m not sure, but I’m very curious about it. There is definitely a spiritual realm that I’ve bumped against and don’t fully understand. And so, it was really fun to go to a party with a medium. Being a medium means conveying information from…